The Ex-Boyfriend List

The list is not about revenge or an attempt to slander the few good guys still out there. The List was created as a reference for girls to report and lookup vital information about a guy they may be interested in. Is he a wife beater? Is he a cheater? Well here’s your chance to find out!! DO NOT POST PERSONAL CONTACT INFORMATION ABOUT ANY MEN ON THIS PAGE. Any person putting up false information, or personal contact information about a person is subject to having their accounts closed and your own personal information provided to the public. So do remember that before you post. ^^


  1. podere

    Drew Scofield aka Andrew B Scofield lives in Arbuckle CA. He preys on women in Yolo and Colusa county and maybe further out. Years ago, he reduced my BF to an emotional wreck. It took her a long time to get over how he treated her…and I just found out he did the same to the woman who came after my friend, even though we tried to warn her off. So it’s beyond time to out this assh*le.
    He is a total player who comes off charming and has money to spend because he lives rent-free in his grandmother’s house. He thinks he is a big shot almond farmer. He doesn’t care if his targets are married or single b/c he is looking for pussy, and as much of it as he can get. He will tell you anything you want to hear to get to you and keep you available for sex. No matter what he says, he is damaged goods, incapable of sustaining a real adult relationship and at some point will go back to his player ways. He shows a woman a good time, to show off. Nice dinners, fancy seats at baseball games and meeting up at the casinos is how he charms the ladies. His looks are OK and he is physically fit. What he won’t do is ever be honest with you about who he really is. He is a drug addict, and he has bedded and played more women than you can imagine. Dozens at least. He will lie about using protection with other women, he will lie about who he was with and how often. He believes he can know if a sex partner has an STD or not just by looking.
    If he targets you as a long term prospect, some of the charm wears off. My BF used to call him a belching farting no good SOB. He does favors for his women and drops cash on them to buy them off for putting up with all kinds of rudeness, emotional distance, being late for everything and generally treating others like crap. When he starts to get tired of a girlfriend, the verbal and emotional abuse starts up. You’re supposed to be grateful for his money and his favors and never call him out on his bullsh*t. If you get him mad he will explode with anger and call you every name in the book. He will turn things around so that nothing is his fault and everything is you. Near as I could tell he was not ever a physical abuser, but given what he will do to you emotionally it almost doesn’t matter. He has zero honesty or integrity though he will demand that from others. He pulls off this hypocrisy really easily because he has no feeling for others and even fewer emotions. His life is all about getting what he wants….and that means his entitlement to use women for his own pleasure. Outwardly he has a lot of swagger and self confidence. He is apparently good in bed and proud of it. If you actually fall in love with this guy you are in for every kind of heartbreak. The woman he screwed over most recently (the poor dumb thing blew over five years trying to make it work with him) was depressed and so clingy-needy…easy prey for this jerk. He does not care about you no matter how much he makes you think he does…know that you are being manipulated. Deep down he knows he is a piece of sh*t (and doesn’t care) but will whine all the time about how no one respects him and how bad people treat him. He totally works the “oh poor me” thing. But if you want to see him come out fighting, call him on actually needing to be a man and keep his word and treat people with respect. He has used sites like Plenty of Fish and others in the past to hunt women…if you catch him at this he will deny he ever meets up with them. I’ll wrap this by saying that I heard his last girlfriend dumped him after finding texts from seven other women he was screwing (unprotected) behind her back after swearing he only had safe sex…after the time she returned from a trip to find another woman’s panties in her bed….he “never touched that woman”. Ladies, you’ve been warned.

  2. suzywong

    lance roane, is a sorry piece of crap, used my friend, moved in with her family didn’t pay rent, for food or give anything towards the house, got her pregnant and when she had a miscarriage he left her to deal all by herself he has no house of his own so he goes from chic to chic if you see him RUN he’s in md so beware he smokes weed and drinks until he passes out he’s good for nothing

  3. brucewillpay0327

    BEWARE of Bruce Bryan Jr,, Bruce Lyle Brian JR, Bruce Blacksheep, Bruce the Blacksheep, Tn,,,,,,

    Multiple DUI’s in Sumner, Davidson and Rutherford counties in Tennessee
    Theft over 10k in Davidson County Tennessee
    Failure to pay Child support on one of his kids in St Johns county Florida (he has 2 kids)
    Failure to appear on the DUI and Domestic Assault in Sumner and Davidson County County
    Convicted of Felony in Tenessee
    Ex DJ for radio stations in Florida and Tennessee

  4. Blujay

    Douglas Bosworth- Burning Man, Sonoma County, Mojave Desert, Los Angeles. Family in San Diego Very Dangerous. Extremely controlling and delusional. He is very talented and extremely manipulative. Likes to hold a girl against her will, choke hold, break one’s phone when she tries to call for help. Forces a woman to work against her will without pay. Takes her phone & takes car keys so she cannot leave. Locks her in the house with him while he verbally and psychologically terrorizes. Verbally abusive, psychologically abusive. Likes to do very dangerous things while you are driving. Leaves women in financial ruin. He lies constantly. Lies about his “Ivy League” education. There wasn’t one. Nothing that comes out of his mouth can be trusted. He lies constantly. Cannot be trusted with paying back loans or following through with financial agreements. Two strikes, three DUIs and Grand Theft, Burglery charges- many Domestic Violence Charges. Loving drunk turns into Scary Drunk if the winds change direction. Has no care for anyone but himself, blames everyone but himself. Cruel beyond anything I have seen of another human being up close. So delusional about reality that you think he actually believes it. Destroys lives.

  5. used again

    Michigan Allen Park, Taylor, Ecorse, Detroit, River Rouge, Lincoln Park, Georgia, Mississippi and more

    He is a woman beater and to the fullest extent. He will punch a womans face until it is unrecognizable and steal from you. he is a horrible drunk and crack and weed addict. He is good at charming someone male or female to get what he wants and once he does he will con you from money or your home and is violent with a history of cheating.

  6. justice

    MessageAnthony Vacchio-currently in LI, New York. Serial user and emotional abuser. Not capable of feelings of true love. His typical type is overweight women who have good paying jobs, and places or houses of their own. He reels you in by telling sob stories about his childhood and how mistreated he was–mind you he is a grown 44year old man. Then he will be as sweet as pie, will buy gifts, tell you how you are an angel sent from above. As soon as he gets a place to live-in your home- he will fix it up to earn his keep and will stop working for money. He may go as far as marrying you to convince you of his love, but BEWARE he will leave you dry and gasping for air! Has handfuls of victims. Protect your heart, your soul and your wallet!

  7. noscrubsfresno

    MANUEL FRED TORRES aka FLACO from FRESNO CALIFORNIA is nothing but a loser deat beat dad he has 4 kids from different females. A criminal background with Two strikes and is a Sexual Offender he has to register as a SEX OFFENDER!! Doesnt have a job or car. BEWARE LADIES OF THIS TATTOOED ALL OVER THUG WITH A RIDICULOUS BACKGROUND THATS LURKING IN FRESNO …..

  8. asmedes

    Brandon Harvey Warren, MI Oxford, MI Rochester, MI Pontiac, MI
    Lazy, looking for a sugar momma and a free ride. He finds someone new every 6 months to sponge off of. He cant and/or wont get a job. He talks to women like they are dumb. He is arrogant and cocky. Beware. Also goes under the name Damien Christian.

  9. enuff_o_dischit

    Brian M. Beck, Dayton, OH
    Very cute, adorable, funny and charming but don’t let that fool you. He’s rapid cycle bipolar, an alcoholic (been thru rehab several times, hits the bottle again days after getting out) and displays paranoid behavior. Brian is very good at lying and manipulating. He will put words in your mouth, accuse you of things you didn’t do or say and twist your words around to use them against you. He will trick you into believing you and he are in a relationship–then when you fall for him (which is his goal), he will push you away and tell you it was never any more than a friendship. He tires of women quickly, usually getting “involved” with several in a year’s time. He will not want you to have sex with anyone else, yet he will **** other women behind your back….and lie about it. Every bad thing that happens to him is everyone else’s fault, never his. Everyone is the Bad Guy, he’s always the “victim”. He will want you one day, then kick you out of his life the next. Brian is very unpredictable, due to the rapid cycle bipolar disorder. You never know how he’s going to be from one day to the next. He will cheat on you too, no matter how good you are to him. Has to have another woman in the shadows, then he will start a fight with you so he can chew your ass out and run to the other girl. Then when he’s tired of her, he’ll search you out, wanting to be a part of your life again….and again….and again. Brian isn’t a monster, he’s just definitely NOT relationship material. My advice is just don’t get involved with him, do not reveal too much of anything to him, do not talk or associate with his friends/family, take all he says with a grain of salt and keep your distance and your guard up at all times around him. Sad, but just trying to save you all the pain and heartache I went thru with him.

  10. blankchic

    Mike O. Jones, Roanoke, Va
    He is a liar, plain and simple. He a gambling addict and a loser and he’ll gamble away his entire paycheck and go after yours. He claims to be a man in integrity, but you’ll soon find that he is a user. He’ll try to use you until there’s nothing left.
    Don’t let him, I got out when he started asking me for money and not smalls sums either. He had the nerve to ask me for $500!!! and then got pissed when I said NO!

  11. ahope1187

    Shane Boudreaux, New Iberia, La be careful when you try to break up with this guy because he will literally try to break you. When I did he pulled a gun on me (such a real man) and proceed to throw me around like I was a rag doll or something. Don’t worry ladies, cops were called and he was arrested but not before I got a few punches in myself. This was years ago but I needed to let everyone know. He’s nuts. Unlike other people on this page (post #266) I actually dated this guy, I didn’t chase after him pathetically wishing for me then try to blast him when he rejected me. Sorry boo boo, but suck it up.

  12. funk_D_Elzy


    Lured me in with his sweet and charming ways. Made me fall totally in love with him. Called all the time, took me out and then just disappeared. Comes to find out that he recently got out of prison and has been in and out since 2005. LADIES BEWARE! He will suck all the life out of you and then move on to the next victim!

    Below are just some of the convictions. He also has several misdemeanors which include Family Violence and Resist Arrest:




  13. cajunfungirl

    Jacob Bell Lafayette La. Ok ladies time to fill you in on Loser. He has an incredible way of charming women but he lies. He cheated on his long time girlfriend so many times she finally dumped him. He told me he has always wanted to be with me and after I slept with him he goes and sleeps with my best friend. He has slept with his friends girlfriends. He thinks every girl wants him. He tells everyone he owns a sporting goods store but his daddy is the one who owns it. He only makes $15.00 an hour. He is such a loser he is 28 and lives at home with his mother, he is bipolar, he is a pill junky and he has a very small penis. Stay as far away from this piece of &*%$ as you can.

  14. PinkBeth

    Michael Gijsbertsen. Ede, Gelderland, NL (Netherlands) – if any of you ladies go here, becareful of him. I’ve dated him off and on for the last two and a half years, and he has lied, cheated and manipulated me. He has tons of female friends, and makes time for them, but never you. Flirts with all of them, out in the open and then denies anything is going on, even when he’s been found out. DO NOT trust him, you will fall for his sweet and charming demeanor and then, you will find out that he’s scum and end up heartbroken.

  15. 15FDublin

    Eoin Sheehan Dublin Ireland. Told me he loved me and wanted to marry me so we would have sex, gave him my virginity nd the next day he told me it wasnt anything serious and couldnt be because he is 22 and im 15. and now i have herpes and he was the only guy ive ever had sex with.

    • lostgirl

      Gareth Grehan – You fuck over your friend in real life then precede to slander him online. This is despicable, but then a lot of things you do are. You should off at least picked a less obvious username.

  16. supposedlyaCrazyBioch

    John Michael Treppard- Chattanooga, TN area- AKA Mike or Michael. Ex drug and alcohol abuser and counselor (got fired for sexual harrassment). Liar, abusive, Sex addict and Bisexual cheater. He Thinks hes better than every woman and pretends to be all sweet and Gentleman like but once he gets you, he cheats with both men and women, calls her out of her name (anything but prefers CU**) Emotionally/Physically abusive.. He likes short skinny redheaded women with VERY little boobs & cute feet. (teenage looking women).. NOT worth ANYONES time.. Oh, and he throws childish temper-tantrums when he doesnt get his way or when hes called out on his actions.

  17. kyliediva1

    Toby Passauer Cranbourne Australia. Cant stand his own company, moves from one girl to the next yet still ‘visits’ his exes whilst with current g/f. Liar, cheat and user. Believes he is superior and will leave you feeling like Crap. Doesn’t have the guts to end long term 4 year relationship to your face, will simply send text message and move on to next girl.

  18. akeaton101

    Leotha Anderson, Peoria Illinois. He is abusive, controlling, manipulative and a big pothead, worst of all a thief. He will steal your heart and your money. He will tell you tales of his hard life, make you pity him, accuse you doing stuff that he is actually doing and kick your teeth in if you confront him or try to leave him. BE AWARE this man is crazy and will ruin your life. NOT WORTH THE AIR HE BREATHES.

  19. build-a-man

    Eric Afful. He acts like the sensitive type, but he’s really a jerk. He shows up late–if ever. Basically, he has no regard for your time and doesn’t bother to call you on a regular basis. After I broke up with him, he continued to text and call me for months. I didn’t respond until two weeks ago, when I finally had enough of it. He claimed that he missed me, still loved me and apologized for what he did. I told him that it would take a lot for him to get back in my good graces because I didn’t trust him. He said that he would do whatever it takes. Well, guess what? No follow up from this guy, which I expected anyway, but it is yet another example of how men never keep their word and like to play games.

  20. c0urtn3ybr33

    Bill Maynor. He sweet talks you, treats you nice, and then goes off and says I can’t be in a relationship, but can be committed. Then leaves you when you’re at your weakest and gets into another relationship with a girl. He is NOT worth the time.

  21. sunspotbaby

    William Gannon aka William Cooper – after 16 years of marriage and 2 sons he remarried, took HER last name to run and hide from child support. Yea – and his mother doesn’t speak to him to this day (this happened in 1989) she talks to me tho – haha that says it all. You changed your last name and your mother won’t speak to you? LOSER!! CHEATER!! LIAR!!!

  22. UberFang

    Chris Perrott. Known Alias: LucasWolfox, luciusheldfether, thantusgrimfist, PSN: L_W_F. He’s a gentlemen at first and what every girl dreams about but he will romance you for a few months and then stop talking while he romances someone else. He will blame you saying you don’t trust him, you forced him to cheat and where smothering him. He is very vain and constantly thinks of his self image in that he will only do the ‘right thing’ at anytime if he thinks other people will notice. For this reason he will not breakup with a girl because he’s truly a coward and doesn’t want trys to desperately make up exhausts to his friends and family why you are a bad person. He will not breakup because he doesn’t want you to think badly of him because he is simply looking for different girls to add to his list. He is also secretly bi but is completely afraid of what others will think of him but will use girls as his cover!!! He will romance a girl to take home to his friends and family as a show to cover up the not so credible girls and guys he’s dating on the side.
    Be careful girls he’s a very smooth romantic talker but knows what he is doing and so say to have you fall for him. He thinks he’s a honorable guy and always do the right thing but he doesn’t and is really a true coward. He is even willing to abandon his dog he’s had since a puppy for ten years so he can not have responsibility. He will say it’s because he truly cares and it’s for the best. That’s his favorite line but who would do that to there dog?! That’s how much a slime he is.

  23. bluesea

    Gary – A bald, fat ugly looking man with no morals or sense of responsibility. Disguised as pleasant, caring, and loving you will think that he is a nice person when you first meet him. But you only get a few weeks that is how long it takes for him to become unable to repress his true self any longer. He subjects a person to anger, emotional and mental abuse. He will rank you on the bottom of his priority list. When you become emotionally involved with him, he will show his true colours. He is the type of person going around telling his mates that he is so brave and intelligent but truly he is a male pussy. If there is any problem he backs out, because this man does not love anybody for who they are but for pleasing him.
    Trash mingles with trash, that’s why we didn’t get along after awhile because you are trash, and I am not. Grow up, grow a pair and settle down with a broad who is at the same low class level as you and has no shame.

  24. DollyDagger

    Dan Shell, Cincinnati, Ohio- is a sociopath who abused my friend of nearly thirty years. She is physically disabled, and was living in The same apt. building as this monster. To make a long story short, they ended up together as a couple, and he used her financially due to the fact hew was too lazy/high to get/maintain a job. As his drinking/ drug use got worse, he began beating/ assaulting her in every way imaginable. my friend is no angel; never was, never will be. But no human being should ever be treated this way. Scared, lonely, and in a new city, she made the mistake of befriending then falling in love with a “person” who used her in every way he could, and left her with physical/ emotional scars that will never heal. He is unpredictable and violent; a pathological liar.

  25. bunny lopez

    lee d a ups driver in modesto calif a maried man with five children, a childrens football coach and all around seemingly nice straight laced man who is a habitual cheater. he lures women into his truck for sex. he talks crap on fat people but is screwing a five hundred pound chic on hhis route . an all around ass who needs to be found out.

  26. porcelain11

    Luke Paxton, Cleveland, Ohio. Pathological Liar. May be a sociopath. Is a drug addict and liar. He was the worst thing that ever happened to my life.

  27. Shane Lane: Alias: Shane, Hercules Tampa, Fl;Ocala,FL;Albany, GA – I was with this man for 7 years. We had two children together and were married. He cheated on me with a man for money and lied to this man telling him that he was gay and that he wasn’t married and didn’t have any children. He is an abusive, controlling alcoholic and unless you don’t want friends and don’t care if you ever talk to your family… DON’T DATE THIS GUY!

  28. Shane Lane: Alias: Shane, Hercules – I was with this man for 7 years. We had two children together and were married. He cheated on me with a man for money and lied to this man telling him that he was gay and that he wasn’t married and didn’t have any children. He is an abusive, controlling alcoholic and unless you don’t want friends and don’t care if you ever talk to your family… DON’T DATE THIS GUY!

  29. Penca

    Steven Ellis…Sumter, SC. This bastard beat the hell out of me. I was only 13 years old when he started to physically abuse me, it didn’t start until 8 months into the relationship. It went from a push to a slap, and then one day he just snapped and broke my nose and blacked both of my eyes. He chased me around his apartment with a knife threatening my life. He slammed my head into a counter multiple times and bashed my face into a microwave so hard I cracked the plastic part of the door with my face. I took his ass to court with a blackened and bruised face and all I got was a temporary restraining order, no justice for me. It didn’t him away of course and I made it clear he was not welcome in my life anymore. He got to the point where he was obsessed and still is, he is still stalking me after 5 years. So girls, if you are smart you will stay clear of this woman beating prick, no relationship is worth risking your safety and I learned that the hard way…

  30. Penca

    Travis Deshotel…from Sumter, SC. We were together for almost 2 years and at the end of our relationship I got knocked up. Him and his bitch mother basically begged me to get an abortion multiple times but even though I thought about it I knew I wasn’t capable of doing it so of course I was planning on having our baby (I was 17 at the time). Well when I was about 7 weeks prego (also the day before my birthday!) I had a miscarrige, which wasn’t a surprise from all the stress and hell I was going through. He wanted to have sex with me THE SAME NIGHT I MISCARRIED OUR CHILD, I should’ve ran then!!! Finally exactly 16 days after that he broke up with me and wanted nothing more to do with me, while I was still miscarrying our child…what a fuck head! Girls, stay away he is a loser and a mommas boy…I think it was her that pushed him into dumping me. He is a liar, manipulater, and lazy pot-head bastard.

  31. shi

    Darick Gayden

    This guy is a jerk. Stay away from him. He cheated on his dying wife. He drinks like a fish, but states that he is a man of GOD. He did and will not honor the state of marriage because he is Mississippi jerk.

  32. ifellforit

    Bruce Lyle Bryan Jr…..AKA BRUCE THE BLACKSHEEP OR JUST BRUCE BLACKSHEEP HE IS AN EX DJ OUT OF NASHVILLE TN FORMERLY FROM florida. This guy is a predator the preys on women that may be older than him and are able to support themselves,and he seems to target single moms. He came into my life presenting himeself a guy that just had bad things happen to him, and after I helped him get them straightend out we got married….then he told me he wanted us to have sex with other people. He is also an alcholic and cannot ever hold a job. He has schizophrenic delusions but when diagnosed refused to take medication and beat me almost to death. And could not understand why we would not get back together after that. I have bought him a jeep which he was to pay, but then defaulted and hid the jeep. I had to file bankrupty to protected myself. He wants older women to use their money while he is out with the younger ladies behind your back I found out too late. He is always running from florida child support enforcement from a daughter that he has never seen,and also has a son down there that he has nothing to do with. He stole from me, lied to me, used me and took everything he could from me. He even tried to tell people that the bruises he had on him from me defending myself, were where I had started attacking him, and he had no choice but to get me off of him. He is verbally abusive and was mean to my children but tried to convince me the children were lying about it. RUN AWAY FROM THIS MAN HE IS DANGEROUS…he also now has a felony record along with everything else in Nashville tn public online records. HE TORE APART MY FAMILY AND MY LIFE

  33. heartbrokensara

    He was engaged then cheated on her while she paid his way through school and paid for his brand new jeep. She broke it off with him and he ended up marrying the girl he cheated on her with. That girl knew he was engaged too! Well long story short, after he gets married he starts contacting his ex again says he loves her, wants to hook, and whenever he drinks he gets bitter about the whole thing! WTF! I want so bad to contact his wife now and say “you knew he cheat on his girl with you, you really didn’t think he would cheat on your ass”! Women come on!! Once a cheater always a cheater!! He was always lying, contacting his ex-girlfriends. He was looking for someone with money. Family wealth. He needed the image. He was all about image. He would tell you what to wear. He was even physically abusive at times. He seems nice. Everyone loves him but he is quite different behind closed doors. He is cheating on his wife. He is bad news! Stay away from this manipulative creep.

  34. krazybytch28

    Brian Lee from poughkeepie ny. If I were you I would stay away from him. He may come off as a great guy like all men do but let me tell you he is far from it. Any boy that would cheat on you while you were pregnant with his baby. Send you into per-term labor due to stress. Have our daughter 2 months early, have to have an emergency c-section and have a 4lb 2 oz baby girl you can’t bring home till a month later is no man at all. Then to top it all off leaves you 2 weeks after Christmas with 4 kid’s. no money, bill’s up the ass, no job cause I was caring for a sick baby and find out he left you for yet another chick. He is no man. Than for two years straight he claims your children who he never supported on his taxes and takes the money to get things for his new apartment and to buy a new motorcycle is no man. Then he keeps coming back to you saying how much he wants to make it work out and then plays you like your a fool. That is no real man. Now he really want’s nothing to do with his children at all. He takes them maybe once every 3 or 4 months if that. So yeah if I were you I would stay away from him. He is nooooo good

  35. Lena

    More about John Charles Burtis Jr., Hyde Park New York also forgot to mention he has cheated on every single woman he’s ever been with including his ex-wife. He starts cheating with a woman then leaves his current girlfriend for the girl he cheated with. He’s done it every single time and he will never change. He’s a real piece of work…and that’s being extremely nice.

  36. Lena

    John Charles Burtis Jr., Hyde Park New York. We were together for 6 years and I found out he’s been cheating on me for 5 of those years. He’s a pathological liar, a serial cheater and physically abusive. Do Not Go Near Him!!!

  37. ParisBound

    Jeff Morser, from San Diego but has resided in Jacksonville FL, Tulsa OK and Bloomington IL. Ladies, do not go near him. He is definitely a guy who seems too good to be true, and he holds that image for awhile, but as the old saying goes, anything that is too god to be true probably is. He definitely was!
    He told me he did not believe in pre-marital relations and then cheated on me with his hussy undergrad co-worker! He made (at the time) probably three times more money than I did, yet he was always complaining of being broke and insisted that I buy his groceries! I did (I know, I know) because he had gone through a divorce (which according to him was 100% his ex-wifes’ fault. hmm-mmm) and I felt he was probably financially strapped afterwards. I had to take him to the airport once and, because I work nights, I fell asleep that morning…but I still got him to the airport on time! I even still got him there early! And guess what? He called me that night and bitched at me for it!
    PLEASE do not go near him. He is a liar, a cheat and will only be interested in you for your money. BEWARE!!!

  38. aeichelberger

    Sean Chavez-Akron,OH-when we were together he tell me he loved me but i’d also find “dirty” conversations with other girls on his phone and when i left him and moved on he and his new girlfriend started harassing and stalking me and when my new boyfriends brother told him to back off or there were going to be problems he tried to make me out to be the bad guy. Also he wont do anything for anyone unless he gets something out of it generally in the form of money or sex. He’s a complete jerk who can’t be trusted.

  39. fedupforever

    Steven Henri from Bellevue, Ne. I met this piece of work through a mutual friend of mine. Steve came off as very sweet and caring, he had the good looks and all of the right things to say. We were together for about 6 months, everything was going fine, and we had discussed moving in together this spring. Well, right before Christmas, he broke up wit me because he had been secretly talking to his ex and thought he still had feelings for her. I should have saw the warning signs that he was trouble, but I really wanted to believe that he was different. About 3 months into the relationship he started to let his nice guy mask slip, and started to show that we was very narcicistic. He constantly talked about how great he was, and began to imply that he was better than me in all aspects. Keep in mind that I am in graduate school, I have a higher position in the company I work for, and I make more money. I implied that he was beter looking than me, even though whenever we went out, all of his friends, guys and girls would talk about nothing else but how attractive I am. He was vey competitive and hated to be challenged, he was never wrong no matter how wrong he really was. I he has a good story, he will try to gain your sympathy and get you to lower your gaurd by telling you about the tragic deaths of two of his siblings. He will sweet talk you, and buy you a lot of cheap shit claiming that he likes to ‘dote’ on all of his girlfriends. Then out of the blue, he will tell you that it isn’t working and dump you leaving you absolutely heartbroken. I found out that he does this to everyone he dates. He will date them, make everything sound like it is going great, and then just dump them. Be warned, this guy is nothing but trouble. If there are any girls out there that really think that they can change him, just remember that he will never be capable of giving you love, because he is too in love with himself. The only thing that will change after you date him, is how you view men all together in a really negative way.

  40. neveragain

    Jerry Dvorak from Houston, TX. This warning is basically for black women since that’s what my ex is into. At least for now.He’s moody,selfish, verbally abusive, liar, and cheater.

  41. karenkay

    Reed Barrow (Sissykrystal)from Everett,Wa. OMG he was such a great guy, warm caring and considerate. Reed was someone I thought was the catch until I had him stay and watch my home while I was away on business. I returned home sooner than I told him and it was late so I quietly entered my home not to wake him, and to my surprise he was in the bedroom with the stereo loud and standing in front of the mirror dressed from head to toe in the most outlandish little sissy girl outfit I ever saw. I think he was in as much shock as I was, and when he tried to explain he just made it worse by telling me and showing me he wears real pampers and plastic pants under his petti too. Give me a break I’m not going to be a mommie to a grown man who thinks he’s a little girl and wets his diaper’s. Unless your into very! sensitive guy’s I would avoid Reed all together.

  42. SaraHoney

    Aaron Wray from WhiteBluff, TN. I dated this guy on and off for 3 and 1/2 years. It started from when I was 12 and he was 14 till I was 16 and he was 18. He was my first bf and being with him almost kept me from being able to ever have a normal relationship again.The whole time we were together he never met my parents, we never went on a date, were never physical (not even a kiss), never talked on the phone, or anything that normal coples have or do. He told me he loved me all the time and broke up with me regularly because he wasn’t “good enough.” He made me think that our relationship was normal so when I got the chance to date other boys I didn’t know how to act with them. He cheated on me repeatedly. He thought he might be gay and I still stuck with him. And finally he broke up with me because he just didn’t love me anymore. Since then he’s repeatedly tried to get me back. Stay away from this jacka**! Nicknames or Known Alias’s: A-ron, Double A-ron

  43. SaraHoney

    Dominic Ruffino
    Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Dom, Minicky, Dominoe, Click
    Last Known Location: Vanleer, TN

    Watch out for this one! He comes off as the perfect guy. He’s great with kids, he can cook, sing, play guitar, he’s funny, sweet, loyal, and gorgeous, but it’s all just a cover. He started out as one of my best friends before we started dating. We had to break-up for unforseeable reasons, but it wasn’t till after that things started going down hill. He told me how much he wanted me then started dating another girl. He dumped her and we hooked up a few weeks later. After that we started being fwb’s. That was on and off. we almost had sex a few times. He started “talking” to another girl over the summer, hooked up with me during that. Hooked up w/ another chick while we were out together after he’d spent the whole day at my house. We split because i wanted more and he wanted to be single. He split up with all the other girls to date some new girl. He cheated on her with me. When people started finding out, he said I made it all up and lied thru his teeth. She ended up cheating on him and the happy couple is still together. we are no longer friends, we went from talking on the phone for hours everynight to barely talking ever. He used me repeatedly, betrayed our friendship, and turned into a cheating womanizing, player. Look out!

  44. Giggles

    Gareth Grehan from Ireland. He lies. He hurts everyone and says he cares. He gains me trust, and acts “gentlemanly” then he starts malicious arguments to break me down. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, then 2 days later rips my heart out by telling me he wants nothing to do with me and that he never loved me.

  45. sabani

    Jerry from Georgia. Where to start. Cyber stalking alcoholic meets paranoid Christian Bale wanna be. Will live off you for free, take all your money, and then claim it’s all your fault. First week I met him I said on the phone that he was sweet and he said No I’m not sweet I’m an Asshole. I should have listened, he knew best!

  46. sabani

    Aztec from conyers. He drinks he smokes he curses he farts he snores and if that’s not enough he’s a lying piece of crap. I gave him 2 kids and he’s trying to ruin my life. Asshole.

  47. colormemad

    Ryan from Michigan. Seriously he has emotional probs and is a master of manipulation. He uses fear to try to control women. Have broken up with him several times he always manages to get me back by crying and getting his way, not this time!

  48. colormemad

    ” Dr. John ” Chiropractor
    Met this “Doctor”…not. He was a CHIROPRACTOR. yeah, ok, not the same thing. I have a great chiropractor and I know the good ones are wonderful but this still is not the same thing as being a “Dr” . He was using that to be deceptive. He was ok at first, I thought he was normal. Then one night he came over to stay and he takes this huge gun out and puts it up to my throat. !!!!!! So scary. I told him I needed his help to get something out of the garage and I got him to go out there. He thought I was walking behind him and as soon as he was down the steps and in the garage I threw his duffle bag w/ the gun * I unloaded it first and threw the bullets out* out into the garage and slammed the door and deadbolted it. He was really mad. I said Get the Hell out of here or I’m calling the police now. That was the last I saw of him. What a freak~! Then his WIFE ( didn’t tell me he had a wife either) started calling me. I was like Look. You need to get your fake Dr. husband to a REAL Dr. fast because he is a total head case. I changed my number. YUK!

  49. colormemad

    Free Loader
    this free loader will come on to you so smooth and like he’s just so in love with you. Calls every few minutes to every hour, even at work always has time for you, blah blah blah. Until he gets in your pants. Then it’s “Hey what can I say the new has worn off”. Hm. But the new didn’t wear off my money did it you took over a 100 grand and sure didn’t mind sticking around for all the benefits. He has a habit of saying all the women in his life past and present are crazy. I could give you a list of all his ex’s and ex wives who he says are crazy. He even says his Mama is crazy. Shame on this Free loading asshole and I hope the rest of his hair falls out and I hope someone does to him what he did to me. I hope someone cleans out his bank accounts steals his stuff and takes advantage of him and his family in every single way.

  50. Lylonixoxo

    Frantz Jean also known as Rick or Ricky from Miami, FL.

    Well ladys here is the King Kong of adultery lie’n and stealing .He won’t take care of his own kids 4 by the way … he sucks in bed and he has multiable my space moco space and blackplant accounts just for the simple pleasure of messing with what he thinks is the lower speices So women watch out for this smooth talking rapper wanna be rat b*stard thanks have a nice day

  51. lizzysmiles

    Billy Lee from charlottesville,va. He is an alcoholic with a charming personality. But dont be fooled he is a jerk. Will be at bars every night,no phone call . NOTHING

  52. utpeaches

    Terry Ross. He never says he doesent want a relationship, but never answers that he does. He gives you just enough information to keep you on the line. He refuses to commit after 1 1/2 years of dating. By now he knows how attached you are to him. He sleeps with other women and has some way of making it all ok…after all he is a good man. He maintains a type of mind control and seduction over you and treats you with a mild neglect. He calls just enough to give you hope. He screws you, screws other women, screws you…after all its okay because you know hes happy being single.

  53. utpeaches

    Lonnie Ernst from Salt Lake City. He is a free loader that makes his way through life using women. He does not care who he hurts to get what he wants. It is probably your money. Claims all his exes are crazy.

  54. utpeaches

    Nick Billings. Calls all the time at first. he goal is to make you feel real special. He tells you how much he loves you after week one. He wants you to pay his bills. When he finds out he can’t freeload he drops you and picks up another girl in a matter of days.

  55. emmyw

    Trevin Wallace Barber from Palmdale, CA. If you think Trevin is such a “Godly” guy and cute cuz he looks like nick jonas then i beg you to reconsider. He is not as Godly as he appears but is a violent CHEATER, HYPOCRITE, LIAR AND FAKE.and hed make a horrible father. youve been warned.

  56. evilangel

    Paul Mijatovich also known as Pablo from Melbourne, Victoria. This guy is a jerk! He ain’t my ex (thank god) but he is a woman beater, manipulator and is iscolating and alienating my best friend from everyone who cares about her! He is a pot smoking, no hope loser who is so controlling, my friend is scared not to answer his phone calls! It’s beyond a joke. Be warned ladies this guy is the real defintion of a controlling male. He deserves a good beating himself if you ask me!!

  57. littlebitty

    Jeromy Coleman from St.Paul , Minnesota. I was married to him less then a year. He is in the Navy and moved to Oaklahoma City after he moved back to the states. I was to move down there with him and my 2 kids but, He told me not to. He didn’t even want to see me , talk to me, text me …. or notihng. Come to find out… He had been cheating on me. Saying I was cheating first. He is smooth Ladies. He is sweet, loving and has a past but, he will use you to get what he wants, Lies, has his father lie for him. If you meet him….. runnnnnnnnnnnn away fast. He will take all your money, and use you for sex. He is really full of himself and can’t stop looking in a mirroer or whatever. Watch out for him. He has always been a cheater and a user.
    Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Jer Bear, Bear

  58. littlebitty

    Eric R. Crosby — Alright weman…… Truely stay away from this one. He loves to have fun, drinks alot, parties…. ok as a friend but please beawear of the truth. I was with him for 6 1/2 years. Known him now for 9 years. He has 2 kids and one with speacial need. Wants nothng to do with him because, as he said it….. I can’t handle the fact he is retared!!!!!” Yes he really said that about our son.!!!!!! He lies about everything. Cheats on every woman. You think your special….. in his phone…. he calls every womean a booty call.!!!!!! He doesn’t see his kids, doesn’t pay nothing to me, and will not talk about his kids. He will use you and lie to you about anything and everything. You will ask you to marrie him in about 3 weeks time. He talks mad crap about every woman. He say’s I love yu to get in your pants. He does cheat. and, He is always right. Stay away from him. Any woman out in White Bear Lake Bar places can tell you what I say is true. Stay away from this a-hole!

    Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Big timer, Thumper, big daddy and E-roc
    Last Known Location: White Bear Lake, Minnesota

  59. freedomgirl

    Scott Todd Perlman
    Run! Do not walk as far away from this abusive ex husband& deadbeat dad. A very “small” man in EVERY way. I guess that’s why he feels he must bully and control those unfortunate enough to believe his crap! He’ll alienate you from your friends and family. He’s so beligerent that you rarely can go to the same place twice with him because he makes an ass of himself with his loud aggressive ways. You will have no self esteem left when he’s done with you. His talent is that he’ll have you believing that “you” made him act this way so it’s your fault. He’s a deadbeat dad who continues to enjoy the priviledge of having a chiropractor license even though he’s many thousands behind continuing NOT to support his kid from a prev. marriage. He lies to courts about his income to avoid having to pay and claims he is on poverty level income! He demeans his little children til they don’t even want to talk on the phone to him. Yet rather than try to improve his relationship with them (stop controlling, bullying) he blames me for being a bad mother. This man is a cancer walking among us. If there were any real justice he’d be in jail where he belongs. He claims to be holistic, the only thing holistic about him is the “holes” in the verbal diarrhea that he spews whether you want to hear it or not! Nicknames or Known Alias’s: “Dr.” Scott. Last Known Location: Marietta,Ga

  60. candygrl

    Thomas John from Wooster, OH. Also known as TJ. I have had two beautiful children for him. i have also had my credit destroyed by him. he now has another child by someone else and does not see his son unless i ask him if he wants to see him. I HAVE TO ASK HIM!!!! Hello!? He drinks and may even have people watching me. He knows what i do. Where i am at etc.

  61. gixxergrl

    Robert “bob” Beasley from columbus, ga. He’s not my ex. he’s the ex of my good friend. he lost his job locally and couldn’t wait to move back home (to his mom’s house) he told my friend he was trying to find work and the whole time he was packing to move. he told her he had tried to get work at a place she referred him to but they weren’t hiring. that was a lie, her manager had already contacted the owner of the business who agreed to hire him. the manager called a few days later to say the guy never showed up. the worst part for me was finding him on the plenty of fish website. ( i didn’t know it was him) i sent her his picture and told her when she went to columbus to visit to see if she could find this guy for me. i finally had to call her on the phone to find out why she wasn’t answering me and that’s when she told me the picture i had sent was him. what a creep. his profile said he had recently transferred to columbus (he was fired from his job) everything he told her was a lie. i wanted to sign up on the website and trick him into meeting me and that’s when i was going to give it to him good. my friend wouldn’t let me do it. she said liars always reap their just rewards and he wasn’t worth the oxygen it would take to even speak his name. ladies in columbus georgia be careful of this creep. and for you creep, i hope your life turns out miserably.

  62. ScarletFever

    David (last name unknown) from Oklahoma City, OK. I didn’t actually date this dude or anything. He tried to get into my panties, but I told him that I was not physically attracted to him, and that we could only be friends. BIG MISTAKE! Description: Short, chubby black dude with child-bearin’ hips & corn rows. You could show a movie on his wide ass. Goofy face. Works for the city. Drives a red car. Currently lives with his Mama (big surprise… NOT). The Scoop: SCRUB to the max, liar, possible pothead & gambler, human crazy-glue, incredibly stupid, overly dramatic, corny, wanna-be player. DO NOT LET HIM IN YOUR HOUSE! Once you get him started, it is hell getting rid of him for good. Will show up EVERY DAY unless you scold him. Says he’s a “loner”, but you’d never suspect that, judging by his needy behavior. Tell him you’re not sexually attracted to him, and he’ll say “OK”… BUT he’ll keep trying to touch you, and even touch himself! (He tried to masturbate on my sofa, right in front of me!!!). Makes up lame, transparent stories about how many women are chasing after him (Riiiiiiiight), in order to make it seem as if he’s “in demand”. Asked me how much money I had, on several occasions, and implied that he wanted to go to Lucky Star casino. I made the grave mistake of buying him dinner a few times (he bought dinner once), and after the 3rd time, he expected me to foot the bill EVERY TIME. One morning, he showed up at my house (after keeping me up all night, watching a movie till 4 AM, and he FINALLY left) and he was in a funky mood because he had just bought a new tag for his car, and he was complaining about the price and throwing the paperwork in my face like he expected me to do something about it. Almost always showed up near dinner time for his freeloading meal. Was always asking if I had any liquor in the house. Very bossy, at times. Would tell me (not ask me) to get him some water, soda, etc. Stole some money from off of my coffee table (he asked me if he could borrow “a dollar”, but scooped-up about 4 dollars worth of quarters when I wasn’t looking). Can’t keep his damned hands to himself, and the word “NO” is not in his dictionary. STAY AWAY FROM THIS PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A MAN!!! He’s a Grade-A LOSER.

  63. ScarletFever

    Paul. I met this guy online, through the Sex Addicts Anonymous Yahoo group. He is, supposedly, a recovering sex addict. Right after I joined the group, he began to send me perverted emails. A few weeks later, he lured me into Yahoo messenger, where he became extremely hostile & abusive when I refused to cyber-sex him. He called me a “Cunt”, accused me of having AIDS and all sorts of other things, just because I wouldn’t give him what he wanted. He is in his 50’s, I think. Has short, curly gray hair, is considerably overweight, wears glasses, and he’s in the real estate business. WATCH OUT!

  64. lahaabbott

    Alan Abbott or Buck, from Winder GA.

    Well prince charming turned into a pathalogical liar and a crook. Not to say his sexual games with others ended our marriage before it ever got started good. He owns a welding shop and has all of his family kissing his rear so he can do his dirty little secrets. It is scary how this man thinks and acts. He has many pending domestic violence cases open throughout the state. Well what else to say but BEWARE OF SHORTWELDERS WHO HURT WOMENDOGS

  65. Aprilnofool

    Jeffrey Weeks from Chicopee, MA Takes advantage of women ($, emotions, whatever he can get), user of human beings, has mommy issues / may hate women altogether. Dead inside. Is perpetual bachelor. Has issues about being manly because he is a pretty boy. Vindictive, sneaky and a cheater. Immature. Superiority complex. Terrible in bed, completely selfish.

  66. MAT

    Andrew Kenease also known as Andy, from Indianapolis, In

    I’ll try to keep this short. First off i only knew this guy for a week. He automatically decided that i was his girlfriend without asking me. By the end of the week he’d told me he loved me, and was asking me to get an apartment with him. He gave me over $200 to ‘buy my firendship’ and by the end of the week he was telling mye i was fat, and how worthless i was. and worst of all. he date raped me. and i became pregnant. i have a beautiful baby boy now who i love dearly. but now i have to have a daily reminder of that one night. and i think the bastard needs to some how pay for it. I know he’s had to do this to other people…he picks girls who are wulnerable and maybe need serious help and/or just had a recent bad break up, and starts trying to control them immediatly.

  67. iamanurse

    Duane Hannah (Bluesdady) from West Virginia Only wants someone to take care of him! Is an alcoholic that doesn’t believe that he has to work. Believes in his heart that a woman should do everything, work, pay bills, clean house, cook, etc. while he sits and watches porn all day on the computer. He thought something was wrong with me as I did not share his beliefs! Big ole looser girls, I should have known better.

  68. Brizmommy

    Aaron Smith from Gainesville, FL. We were together for 3 years and have a womderful daughter together… 3 months ago we both decided to have another baby. I got pregnant right away. 2 months into it he decides he isnt feeling it anymore so we are splitting up… and get this… before we officially ended our relationship he went off all night and slept with someone else, how’d I find this out? Found the condom in a cup in his car…. great right? No I’m pregnant and alone when it was supposed to be us growing our family.


    Ernie Gurke
    This is a dangerous psychopath, alchoholic and druggie who gets his kicks out of sadistic acts, violence, lies, manipulations, and making fools of everyone – he will say anything to get what he wants and steal and throw away everything you have to hurt you. Watch out for your kids and friends, no one will stand in his way. sweet talk will soon turn to physical violence. Depraved empty man who will steal you blind. Weak little man who cares about nothing but himself and how he will get his next fix. Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Ernie, Ernst Last Known Location: Whitehouse Station, New Jersey

  70. notabused

    Nicknames or Known Alias’s: ERNIE, ERNST, Last Known Location: READINGTON NEW JERSEY

  71. notabused

    He says he has friends on the police to deter you from calling the police when he is violent or threatening. CALL THE POLICE. get the protection you need. Don’t be intimidated by this lying degenerate. don’t let him hurt you or destroy your home. call the police and file the charges. your safety comes first. Last Known Location: NEW JERSEY AND NEW YORK

  72. steph

    Jose Antonio from Laredo, TX. Dated him for app. 3 months. Slept over at my house numerous times. Very recently I was informed that he has a girlfriend with children in his hometown. This information was confirmed via internet. I’m sure his girlfriend had no idea what her sweet little college boy was up to during the week, 3.5 hours away from home.

  73. wejo

    Anthony Lorick also known as Tony, from Kerrville Texas… Mentally ill,Compulsive liar,violent,emotionally abusive, financially abusive, sexually abusive. This man was a serial cheater. He had so many phone numbers in his wallet once it took me hours to call all the women. His real trick is the internet. He had dozens of women on the line and thinks a woman is stupid enought to believe all his lies and when you don’t he becomes furious!He draws you in by first becoming a “caring” friend and then convinces you he’ll give you everything you dream of. He was dangerous before but now he’s taking karate lessons. Stay way from this man! He will take everything you have and leave you or worse you might just end up dead!

  74. carolann

    Duane Butler known as BIg D from stephenville newfoundland canada. Beware, he is a con artist true manipulater. Uses woman for their money or what ever he can get even just a meal. has drug addictions which he will try to support by living off his woman. he will run your bath light the candles and fill your heart but you will only end up being used for his own needs. He is abusive when drinking and has been also with kids. Dead beat father 100 per cent would rather support his habits then his kid at present is using yet another woman who is going through a divorce and is waiting for her to get her money so he can take it and run. his past history with all his woman is the same, he is a liar cheater user and a very loud speaking man with a mental illness. He loves a woman with a sports car and will try to charm you to give it to him. He is a big man 230 pounds 6 foot 2 inch but really he is only a small man with a very small burnt out mind and a very small private part. Useless human being who uses woman and never worked any real time in his life, welfare is his style and the bonus comes from the females he meets who have a bit of money to support him and the habits. He is verbally abusive as well when he does not get what he wants or he will pretend to be depressed so you will feel sorry for him and give him what he wants. He hurt me and my kids many times, my kids hate him and have been scarred. Beware is all I have to say!!!

  75. CourtBlazrox

    Chris Patik known as “C” from Connellsville, PA. He is a lying, cheating, jobless, and degreeless loser and waste of space. He is very attractive and a charmer, but once he gets close to you, he starts to take all your money and he’ll move in with you just so the jobless hobo has a place to sleep! All the while, he is seeing other women behind your back! STAY AWAY trust me, girls :)

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