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I've been married for about 3 months now but I'm not ready to have kids. I can't take the pill because of other medical problems and other birth control methods aren't always so wonderful. I had heard that there is only a week month where you can get pregnant. Is this true and what week a month is it? I know it's different for every woman but how can one calculate their own week? -- CONTINUED --

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I started a new job last week and there is the best looking guy there. I've had some bad luck with relationships my entire life and I don't want to blow this so I am asking for your help. How can I make this guy fall for me? -- CONTINUED --

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I'm 31 years old, not married and no prospects in sight. I'm not hideously ugly but I just can't seem to fight the right guy. Every guy I meet ends up being a cheater, or not ready to commit or someone who still wants to hang out with the boys every day. I'm to old for the dating games and that's why I am coming to you for some advice. What in the world am I going to do? I'm not getting any younger. -- CONTINUED --

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I met the perfect guy at work a few months ago. I'm madly in love with him but my best friend hates him. She says that I'm not in love with him and points to my jealousy of him talking to others girls as her proof but I think that's my proof. If I didn't love him, why would I be jealous when he talks to other girls then? I know this is true love, so what can I do to prove it to her? -- CONTINUED --

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I've been married for four years now and lately my husband and I have been having problems. We seem to fight all of the time. It's not over anything big. Mostly about money or over little things that are just flat out trivial. I don't know what to do and I want to find a way to bring back the closeness we once had. I had read somewhere that there is a stone you can wear that helps encourage love and compassion. Is there any truth to this? Or am I just holding on to false hope? I just don't know what to do anymore. -CONTINUED-

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Awhile ago I met a guy while playing a card game online. I'm not one for meeting people online because I've heard to many bad things but he was nice enough. We chatted casually for about 6 months and it never went any further. We sort of lost contact for about a year and then out of the blue he sends me an email to let me know he was thinking of me and to see how I was doing.

Things have progressed slowly and now we are to the point where I think I want to meet him in real life. He is coming to where I live for work and he wants to meet. I'm really not sure what to do. I visit your site from time to time for a good laugh. I love your worst pick up lines. So I thought I would write and ask what you think.

He's such an amazing guy. We have such a great connection online. But will it translate to the real world? I can sit and play cards with this guy for hours and hours and our conversation never seems to end. He always seems to know the perfect thing to say. I just don't know what to do.

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I'm desperate and I need your help. I'm madly in love with my boyfriend but he is in love with someone else. I am so scared I'm going to lose him and I don't know what to do. I met on-line. We both play this game and we've been together for about two years now. We are married in the game but lately he's fallen for someone else. He's with her all the time and he barely has time for me anymore. Every time I log on he's with her. I go off and craft his wool and come back and he's still with her. It's like he doesn't need me anymore. Please help me! -CONTINUED-

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I'm almost embarrassed to write you this but to be honest I figured what do I have to lose? I came across your site a few years ago after a bad break up. By the way I love all the changes. You've done a great job but anyway that isn't the reason I am writing. I haven't dated since that last bad breakup and a good friend at work is insistent on setting me up with this guy she claims is 100% guaranteed perfect for me in every way, which also happens to be her cousin.

He does sound great and by the pictures she showed me of the guy he looks great too but as you can imagine I'm just a little bit hesitant. I know that I need to get back out there but I'm still nervous. Another friend jokingly suggested I use one of those on-line compatibility quizzes to see if we really are all that compatible but I don't even know where or how to start then I see you added some stuff like that to your site and I knew I had to write and ask you about it. Any suggestions for me? At this point I'm really willing to try anything to calm my nerves. Am I crazy for doing this? -CONTINUED-

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I've had a steady boyfriend for the last 10 years. I haven't been on a date in so long but my roommate set me up with a guy she knows from work and after reading your letter earlier today I realized how much I don't know about dating and I'm scared to death. What specifically would you ask a guy on a first date, that you think I need to know? -CONTINUED-

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Dear Tracy, I am seeing someone, and things seem to be going great... but there are a few problems... 1) we're both seperated from our spouses (but legally married) 2)there is a ten year age difference, which although i am fine with, I know family members wont be so happy about it and 3)There are times when I can't get in touch with him I guess i'm wondering what are the real chances of this relationship working. 4)For me he isn't the rebound guy after my failed marriage. But am I his rebound girl? 5)We've been going out for about 2 months now without any arguements, we always seem to have the "perfect" date when we're out, and during a conversation and under the influence of alcohol, he revealed that he was falling in love with me. Is he for real? What do you make of our situation? -CONTINUED-

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How do you know if a guy really likes you? I went on a date with a guy I really like but I'm not sure if he's going to call. It's been a few days now. -CONTINUED-

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