I started a new job last week and there is the best looking guy there. I've had some bad luck with relationships my entire life and I don't want to blow this so I am asking for your help. How can I make this guy fall for me?

Love is a very complicated thing ... there is no set formula for it either, if there was, then everyone would be happy and in love and there would be no need for a site like MenSuck.com. =) That being said, there are a few things you can do to improve your chances.

1) GET A LIFE! Men love a challenge. Make yourself to readily available and you reduce your chances for success. By having other things to do, you immediatly become more attrative to all men. To be more specific, you need to find other things to do with your time, things that can improve your life and make you even more interesting. Take a cooking class or learn another language. Doing these things will keep your mind busy and prevent you from having to much free time to obsess about men.

2) GET AMNESIA! Men may say they want to know about your past, but really they don't want to know and the biggest mistake a girl makes is blabbing far to much about her past. Forget about all your ex boyfriends and past mistakes in life or freaky family members. When a man wants to know about your past the only thing you should tell him are positive, uplifting stories. Avoid any subject that has anything to do with any person in your past.

3) THE POWER OF POSITIVE THINKING! I once stubbed my toe may sound innocent enough but it's negative. Why would you want to put any negative thoughts between you and the man of your dreams? When having a conversation with your dreamboat, make sure everything you say is positive. Your glass should always be half full.

4) HAVE SOME SELF CONFIDENCE! There is nothing more attractive to the opposite sex than someone who believes in themself and the first step in thinking you are fabulous is to tell yourself just that. You should wake up every day and look in the mirror and say I AM FABULOUS, every single day for the rest of your life. Say it enough and you will believe it. That little bit of self confidence should be what it takes to make your man notice you.

5) DON'T BE A TRAMP! Seriously there is no other way to say it. No girl should ever sleep with a man on the first night or even in less than 10 to 20 dates (depending on how often you are seeing him). In the early stages of your dating, you shouldn't even put yourself in a situation where you might slip up and do something you might later regret. Anything worth having is worth waiting for and you are worth having so make him wait for you!